|We were young|
Once again, people call me, to look for my ex-husband. I received a phone call, from someone who works at the State Controllers Office, letting me know, that my ex, has a life insurance policy that he has not claimed. $44,834.33. The ex. is the sole beneficiary of the policy (It was part of his mom's estate)
The Ex. turned out to be a total drunken bum after we divorced. After our oldest son died, he totally went off the deep end, due to his guilt and stopped communicating with his other 2 sons. It's been 14 years. I've had friends, contact me, telling me, they found him on the beach, living under a tarp. His mother's home was a total mess and back taxes were due. His nephews took over and they retained an attorney - they ended up selling the house. The Ex. got half. (His sister had died years ago when the nephews were young - they were the legal heirs) I heard he bought a brand new motorhome and was living in an RV park, just outside San Francisco.
Still no contact - I wrote him, through the RV park, letting him know, how he could reach his sons. The letter never came back - so he probably got it. My sons won't write - and it is for the best - he would be a bad influence on them.
You know, it all upset me. I would rather not knowing anything about the man. I still get angry, at how he deserted his sons, Michael included. How their Grandma (his mother) would have never approved at what he has done to her grandsons. Yet they get nothing. If anything, they will end up being responsible, to bury the man, once he dies. He probably will leave them nothing.
Yeah I could of done without hearing about this afternoon.