Monday, October 21, 2013
A new different life for me
My first line on this blog post started out saying:
I hate my life - and I don't know how much I can handle. But then I stopped - LOOKED at that statement and erased it. That's just NOT TRUE. I can handle all of this. It's just stretching muscles I have not ever used before (as well as our already empty wallet)
I am going to try and not worry about the "what if's". If you let those little guys into your thinking, they can take over - and ruin everything. Looking at this logically - Charleen and Roy have no place else to go - they have done all that they can do = maybe or maybe not but they are stuck. They need help. I know, in times in my life, I have been stuck and needed someone to help me. They are out of answers and when we live as far away as we do, it is hard for us, to monitor their situation.
It might be rough for awhile - for all of us financially but we'll make it. and we'll make it because we are all in this together. Plus the Husband can be hard-nosed. He won't allow them to just sit around and watch TV. He is not a push-over. He wasn't a chief-petty officer for nothing.
But yeah, I will complain - bitch, moan and groan from time to time - just to keep my sanity.
All I will say though, with these adult children - lets just say, we are helping them all now. When they eventually go - we're spending the rest of their inheritance on us!
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